How do you know if you’ve changed from a Type A workaholic into a good parent?

If, in the same week, you can go from gently chewing out an employee for not being responsive to a client within a few minutes of their request coming in to fishing with your son in a pond that you know has not a single fish.  You just cast that line out into the water and let him turn the crank reel it back, over and over, for hours….